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  • DON'T JOIN THE WORLD TO ATTACK THE CHURCH - DR PAUL ENENCHE

    We live in a world today that is increasingly becoming an anti-christianity or anti-God. Actually as we are approach the end of the age, hostility against God against the gospel will explode.

    The bible says that in the last days, the love of many will wass cold. Don't join the world to attack the church. Never agree to be recruited to pursue an anti-christ agenda.

    Don't ever put yourself in a position where it appears like you are fighting God.

    Beloveth, if you cannot defend the church, atleast don't attack the church so that you won't appear before God at the end of your life, and he will ask you who made you a judge over the church.

    What many people are craving for is a free world, where nobody will be there to tell you what to do and what not to do, so they can do what the want to, and that is the primary reason why there is so much attack on the church. The most painful part is that some Christians have become agents in this regard without even knowing it. Don't be such kind of christian, don't belong to any anti-christian movement.

    One of the major assignments of the children of God is to ensure that the kingdom is defended and advanced, and not to join forces with the enemies of the kingdom.
    DON'T JOIN THE WORLD TO ATTACK THE CHURCH - DR PAUL ENENCHE We live in a world today that is increasingly becoming an anti-christianity or anti-God. Actually as we are approach the end of the age, hostility against God against the gospel will explode. The bible says that in the last days, the love of many will wass cold. Don't join the world to attack the church. Never agree to be recruited to pursue an anti-christ agenda. Don't ever put yourself in a position where it appears like you are fighting God. Beloveth, if you cannot defend the church, atleast don't attack the church so that you won't appear before God at the end of your life, and he will ask you who made you a judge over the church. What many people are craving for is a free world, where nobody will be there to tell you what to do and what not to do, so they can do what the want to, and that is the primary reason why there is so much attack on the church. The most painful part is that some Christians have become agents in this regard without even knowing it. Don't be such kind of christian, don't belong to any anti-christian movement. One of the major assignments of the children of God is to ensure that the kingdom is defended and advanced, and not to join forces with the enemies of the kingdom.
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  • *Two Economies*
    There are basically two economies in the world and every nation on the face of the earth fall under either of them.

    These are:

    * The Knowledge Economy

    * The Religion Economy

    The rich and prosperous nations of the world belong to the Knowledge Economy while the the poorest and poverty stricken nations of the world belong to the Religion Economy.

    The Knowledge Economy is one that engages the brain, asks relevant questions, and proffer solutions to problems.

    The Religion Economy is one that blackmails God and dumps every responsibilities on Him.

    The Knowledge Economy tasks the brain, the Religion Economy numbs the brain.

    Japan, for example, is a Knowledge Economy. It has no natural resources but it is a prosperous nation, one of the richest on the planet.

    At least six of every ten cars on Nigeria's roads today are Japanese cars.

    Japan is not a religious country, but it is one of the most corruption-free nations.

    China is not a religious country, but nations that ignore China today do so to their own peril.

    Nigeria falls under Religion Economy, everything depends on God.

    Nigeria is one of the most endowed nations with natural resources on the face of the earth, yet also among the poorest.

    Nigeria wears proudly the badge of the "poverty capital of the world" and is one of the most corrupt nations on the face of the earth.

    It is also one of the most religious countries on the planet.

    It is a nation where everything depends on God, and God watches in disgust as we mortgage our brains.

    Even security agencies that are constitutionally funded from budgets look up to God to carry out their duties.

    But here is the irony.

    The two major religions of the world, Christianity and Islam, emanated from Israel and Saudi Arabia respectively.

    But none of those two nations fall under Religion Economy.

    None!

    One of the evidences of their subscription to Knowledge Economy is the yearly pilgrimages that generate for them revenues in billions of dollars.

    But hypocritically stupid nations like Nigeria are comfortable disseminating nuisance to humanity with their glamorization of the Religion Economy.

    People elected and empowered to do a job will turn around and ask those who elected them to pray.

    God is disgusted with Religion Economy.

    There's a reason He gave man brain and instructed him to subdue the earth.

    If you're a Christian or a Muslim, who does not commit himself to the pursuit of knowledge your life will become a perfect reflection of Nigeria.

    That's a fact!

    It is an illusion to anticipate wisdom where people do not pay attention to Knowledge.
    *Two Economies* There are basically two economies in the world and every nation on the face of the earth fall under either of them. These are: * The Knowledge Economy * The Religion Economy The rich and prosperous nations of the world belong to the Knowledge Economy while the the poorest and poverty stricken nations of the world belong to the Religion Economy. The Knowledge Economy is one that engages the brain, asks relevant questions, and proffer solutions to problems. The Religion Economy is one that blackmails God and dumps every responsibilities on Him. The Knowledge Economy tasks the brain, the Religion Economy numbs the brain. Japan, for example, is a Knowledge Economy. It has no natural resources but it is a prosperous nation, one of the richest on the planet. At least six of every ten cars on Nigeria's roads today are Japanese cars. Japan is not a religious country, but it is one of the most corruption-free nations. China is not a religious country, but nations that ignore China today do so to their own peril. Nigeria falls under Religion Economy, everything depends on God. Nigeria is one of the most endowed nations with natural resources on the face of the earth, yet also among the poorest. Nigeria wears proudly the badge of the "poverty capital of the world" and is one of the most corrupt nations on the face of the earth. It is also one of the most religious countries on the planet. It is a nation where everything depends on God, and God watches in disgust as we mortgage our brains. Even security agencies that are constitutionally funded from budgets look up to God to carry out their duties. But here is the irony. The two major religions of the world, Christianity and Islam, emanated from Israel and Saudi Arabia respectively. But none of those two nations fall under Religion Economy. None! One of the evidences of their subscription to Knowledge Economy is the yearly pilgrimages that generate for them revenues in billions of dollars. But hypocritically stupid nations like Nigeria are comfortable disseminating nuisance to humanity with their glamorization of the Religion Economy. People elected and empowered to do a job will turn around and ask those who elected them to pray. God is disgusted with Religion Economy. There's a reason He gave man brain and instructed him to subdue the earth. If you're a Christian or a Muslim, who does not commit himself to the pursuit of knowledge your life will become a perfect reflection of Nigeria. That's a fact! It is an illusion to anticipate wisdom where people do not pay attention to Knowledge.
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  • https://news360ng.com/breaking-court-fines-multichoice-directs-issuance-of-one-month-free-dstv-gotv-subscription-to-customers/
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    BREAKING: Court fines Multichoice, directs issuance of one month free DSTV, GoTV subscription to customers
    A court has fined Multichoice Nigeria N150 million and ordered it to provide DSTV and GoTV subscribers a one-month free service to customers. The Competition and Consumer Protection Tribunal has ordered Multichoice Nigeria to provide users to its DStv and GOtv platforms with a one-month free service. Additionally, the tribunal imposed a N150 million fine […]
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  • BLOOD AGAIN IN ABA.

    We say NO to the killing of soldiers and other military and parliamilitary personnels, who are on humanitarian services to the nation.

    To serve the nation is not a CRIME.

    Blood shed has never been the pattern of the people of south east, until when blood sucking demons took over a group of evil persons, who are bent on destroying the good image and friendly disposition of south eastern people..

    No human being should take another human life when you can't give life.

    Killing of soldiers is aba, is barbaric, evil and heartless.

    It is a setback to the peace that is already recorded in south east after a long bloody period...

    Those who did this must be apprehended and be made to face the law.

    You can't wake up and kill people's parents who are serving the nation and made their wives and children, widows and fatherless,,,suffering and you want to live and be moving around.

    These heartless individuals must be apprehended.

    Very painful, that nothing can be done to bring the soldiers back to life.

    It's very painful, and a setback to the peace recorded in South East for sometime now.

    May the families of these soldiers be comforted, and may the souls of these peacekeepers ( soldiers) rest in peace.

    few days, being 29th May, 2024, we the international association of world peace advocates ( IAWPA) marked the UN international day of Peacekeepers, and celebrated the armed forces, mourning our past heroes and heroines, only for these devils in human form to spoil the joy in our hearts last night..

    All leaders( political, traditional or religious) in south east, must condemn this evil.

    We condemn in strong terms, this demonic act that is completely strange to our people.

    It can be anybody tomorrow.

    When you don't condemn an injustice done to others today because you weren't' directly a victim, don't forget that tomorrow you may be a victim also..

    Once again, may the souls of these our patriotic soldiers rest in perfect peace.

    Peace is an important ingredient for any meaningful national development.

    I also plead with the military not to worsen the situation by retaliating, making innocent persons suffer for the crime of others.

    We can't use a wrong method to correct what is already wrong in itself.

    Peace is the best way to go.

    We need more of PEACE ADVOCATES and Peace advocacy.

    Nobody is free at any period of war

    AFRICAN PRO ( IAWPA)
    BLOOD AGAIN IN ABA. We say NO to the killing of soldiers and other military and parliamilitary personnels, who are on humanitarian services to the nation. To serve the nation is not a CRIME. Blood shed has never been the pattern of the people of south east, until when blood sucking demons took over a group of evil persons, who are bent on destroying the good image and friendly disposition of south eastern people.. No human being should take another human life when you can't give life. Killing of soldiers is aba, is barbaric, evil and heartless. It is a setback to the peace that is already recorded in south east after a long bloody period... Those who did this must be apprehended and be made to face the law. You can't wake up and kill people's parents who are serving the nation and made their wives and children, widows and fatherless,,,suffering and you want to live and be moving around. These heartless individuals must be apprehended. Very painful, that nothing can be done to bring the soldiers back to life. It's very painful, and a setback to the peace recorded in South East for sometime now. May the families of these soldiers be comforted, and may the souls of these peacekeepers ( soldiers) rest in peace. few days, being 29th May, 2024, we the international association of world peace advocates ( IAWPA) marked the UN international day of Peacekeepers, and celebrated the armed forces, mourning our past heroes and heroines, only for these devils in human form to spoil the joy in our hearts last night.. All leaders( political, traditional or religious) in south east, must condemn this evil. We condemn in strong terms, this demonic act that is completely strange to our people. It can be anybody tomorrow. When you don't condemn an injustice done to others today because you weren't' directly a victim, don't forget that tomorrow you may be a victim also.. Once again, may the souls of these our patriotic soldiers rest in perfect peace. Peace is an important ingredient for any meaningful national development. I also plead with the military not to worsen the situation by retaliating, making innocent persons suffer for the crime of others. We can't use a wrong method to correct what is already wrong in itself. Peace is the best way to go. We need more of PEACE ADVOCATES and Peace advocacy. Nobody is free at any period of war AFRICAN PRO ( IAWPA)
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  • Welcome to Yomen Cloud - Your African Social Network!

    Tired of being scattered across different platforms? It's time to bring everyone together on Yomen Cloud, the first-ever African social network designed for you and your loved ones. Connect, socialize, and thrive in a community tailored to your roots.

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    Join Yomen Cloud today and be part of the revolutionary African social network. Together, let's redefine connection and community. Please share this with friends and family. And help share on other social media platforms.
    🌍 Welcome to Yomen Cloud - Your African Social Network! Tired of being scattered across different platforms? It's time to bring everyone together on Yomen Cloud, the first-ever African social network designed for you and your loved ones. Connect, socialize, and thrive in a community tailored to your roots. ✨ Why Yomen Cloud? 📲 All-in-One Platform: Experience the power of a comprehensive social network with features like live streaming, event creation, video and audio calls, chat, groups, pages, and more – all in one place! 💰 Empowerment through VTU: Easily purchase airtime, and data, and pay light bills, and TV subscriptions right from the platform. Your convenience is our priority. 💸 Send Tips Anywhere: Support your friends and family by sending them tips directly through the platform. No more worries about funds being misused. 🛍️ Marketplace Magic: Buy and sell products and services hassle-free within the Yomen Cloud marketplace. Elevate your business and discover local treasures. 🌐 Global Fundraising: Need support for your NGO, Foundation, or project? Utilize our GoFundMe system to connect with a broader audience and achieve your goals. 🔐 Exclusive Pro Membership: Unlock extra features tailored to your needs with our Pro membership plans. Experience Yomen Cloud at its fullest potential! 🔄 Referral Rewards: Invite your network to join Yomen Cloud and earn points that can be used within the platform or withdrawn to your local bank account. 💰 Monetize Your Talent: Showcase your creativity and make money! Monetize your content and turn your passion into a source of income. 👏 Tipping Made Easy: Want to show appreciation? Tip your family and friends through their profiles or content. It's as simple as a click! Join Yomen Cloud today and be part of the revolutionary African social network. Together, let's redefine connection and community. Please share this with friends and family. And help share on other social media platforms.
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  • SECRETS MARRIED COUPLES MUST KNOW ABOUT INTIMACY.

    By Dr Nnodim Solomon.

    Intimacy is a multifaceted aspect of a marriage that goes beyond physical closeness. Here are 21 insights into fostering intimacy in marriage:

    1: Emotional Connection: Building a strong emotional connection is the foundation of intimacy. Share your thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities with your partner openly and honestly.
    2: Trust and Transparency: Trust is crucial for intimacy. Be transparent with each other and honor each other's trust.
    3: Prioritize Quality Time: Make time for meaningful conversations and shared experiences. Quality time together strengthens your bond and deepens intimacy.
    4: Active Listening: Practice active listening when your partner speaks. Show empathy and understanding, and validate their feelings.
    5: Physical Affection: Regular physical touch, such as hugs, kisses, and cuddling, is essential for maintaining intimacy.
    6: Intimate Communication: Discuss your sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries openly and without judgment.
    7: Shared Goals and Dreams: Work together towards common goals and dreams. Sharing a vision for the future strengthens your connection.
    8: Respect Individual Differences: Respect each other's individuality and differences. Celebrate what makes each of you unique.
    9: Forgiveness and Compassion: Learn to forgive and show compassion towards each other's mistakes and imperfections.
    10: Spontaneity and Surprise: Embrace spontaneity and surprise your partner with thoughtful gestures or outings.
    11: Maintain Physical Health: Take care of your physical health, as it can impact your ability to be intimate with your partner.
    12: Explore Each Other's Bodies: Take the time to explore and learn about each other's bodies. Experiment with different forms of touch and intimacy.
    13: Keep the Romance Alive: Keep the romance alive in your relationship by going on dates, writing love notes, or planning romantic getaways.
    14: Create a Safe Space: Create a safe and judgment-free space where you can express your desires and vulnerabilities without fear.
    15: Share Responsibilities: Share household responsibilities and work as a team to create a balanced and harmonious home environment.
    16: Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate each other's successes and milestones, both big and small.
    17: Be Present: Be fully present and engaged with your partner when you're together. Put away distractions and focus on each other.
    18: Practice Gratitude: Express gratitude for each other regularly. Appreciate the little things your partner does for you.
    19: Learn and Grow Together: Commit to continuous learning and growth as individuals and as a couple. 20: Support each other's personal development.
    Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you're facing challenges in your relationship, don't hesitate to seek the guidance of a therapist or counselor who specializes in intimacy and relationships.
    21: Reignite the Spark: If intimacy has dwindled, take proactive steps to reignite the spark in your relationship. Experiment with new activities, rekindle old hobbies, or seek professional help if necessary.
    Remember, intimacy in marriage requires effort, patience, and mutual respect. By prioritizing emotional connection, open communication, and physical closeness, you can nurture intimacy and strengthen your bond with your partner.
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    SECRETS MARRIED COUPLES MUST KNOW ABOUT INTIMACY. By Dr Nnodim Solomon. Intimacy is a multifaceted aspect of a marriage that goes beyond physical closeness. Here are 21 insights into fostering intimacy in marriage: 1: Emotional Connection: Building a strong emotional connection is the foundation of intimacy. Share your thoughts, feelings, and vulnerabilities with your partner openly and honestly. 2: Trust and Transparency: Trust is crucial for intimacy. Be transparent with each other and honor each other's trust. 3: Prioritize Quality Time: Make time for meaningful conversations and shared experiences. Quality time together strengthens your bond and deepens intimacy. 4: Active Listening: Practice active listening when your partner speaks. Show empathy and understanding, and validate their feelings. 5: Physical Affection: Regular physical touch, such as hugs, kisses, and cuddling, is essential for maintaining intimacy. 6: Intimate Communication: Discuss your sexual desires, fantasies, and boundaries openly and without judgment. 7: Shared Goals and Dreams: Work together towards common goals and dreams. Sharing a vision for the future strengthens your connection. 8: Respect Individual Differences: Respect each other's individuality and differences. Celebrate what makes each of you unique. 9: Forgiveness and Compassion: Learn to forgive and show compassion towards each other's mistakes and imperfections. 10: Spontaneity and Surprise: Embrace spontaneity and surprise your partner with thoughtful gestures or outings. 11: Maintain Physical Health: Take care of your physical health, as it can impact your ability to be intimate with your partner. 12: Explore Each Other's Bodies: Take the time to explore and learn about each other's bodies. Experiment with different forms of touch and intimacy. 13: Keep the Romance Alive: Keep the romance alive in your relationship by going on dates, writing love notes, or planning romantic getaways. 14: Create a Safe Space: Create a safe and judgment-free space where you can express your desires and vulnerabilities without fear. 15: Share Responsibilities: Share household responsibilities and work as a team to create a balanced and harmonious home environment. 16: Celebrate Achievements: Celebrate each other's successes and milestones, both big and small. 17: Be Present: Be fully present and engaged with your partner when you're together. Put away distractions and focus on each other. 18: Practice Gratitude: Express gratitude for each other regularly. Appreciate the little things your partner does for you. 19: Learn and Grow Together: Commit to continuous learning and growth as individuals and as a couple. 20: Support each other's personal development. Seek Professional Help if Needed: If you're facing challenges in your relationship, don't hesitate to seek the guidance of a therapist or counselor who specializes in intimacy and relationships. 21: Reignite the Spark: If intimacy has dwindled, take proactive steps to reignite the spark in your relationship. Experiment with new activities, rekindle old hobbies, or seek professional help if necessary. Remember, intimacy in marriage requires effort, patience, and mutual respect. By prioritizing emotional connection, open communication, and physical closeness, you can nurture intimacy and strengthen your bond with your partner. (Please let share this to get it to all Couples)
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  • Obstacles to True Intimacy in Relationships

    Intimacy transcends physical closeness and embodies the profound connection shared by two people in love. However, certain factors can impede this deep bond:

    Lack of Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in understanding and responding to your partner's feelings. A deficiency in this area can lead to misinterpretations and conflicts, obstructing the flow of genuine intimacy.

    Technological Distractions: In today’s digital age, phones, tablets, and other devices can significantly distract from face-to-face interactions. Prioritizing screen time over partner time can erode the foundations of intimate connection.

    Physical Health Issues: Health problems, whether chronic or temporary, can affect one's libido and ability to physically engage in intimate activities. Addressing these issues with compassion and understanding is crucial for maintaining closeness.

    Mental Health Struggles: Issues such as depression, anxiety, or stress can isolate individuals emotionally and lead to withdrawal from intimate connections. Supportive dialogue and professional help can mitigate these effects.

    Unresolved Past Traumas: Past experiences, particularly traumatic ones, can cast long shadows over current relationships. Working through these issues with professional guidance can help in reclaiming intimacy.

    Lifestyle Mismatches: Differing lifestyles and values can create rifts in how partners spend their time and engage with each other. Finding common ground or accepting differences is key to maintaining intimacy.

    Communication Gaps: Inadequate communication can lead to misunderstandings and resentment, blocking the paths to intimacy. Effective communication involves not just talking but also listening and understanding your partner's perspectives.

    Neglecting Personal Growth: When individuals stop investing in their personal development, it can stagnate the relationship. Encouraging each other to pursue personal interests and growth can bring fresh energy and insights into the relationship.

    Over-Dependency on Sex: While sex is an important aspect of intimacy, relying solely on it can detract from the richness of your relationship. See beyond physical pleasure; embrace emotional connection through cuddling, pillow talks, and simply being together.

    Lack of Quality Time: Intimacy requires undivided attention and cannot thrive in haste. Dedicate time to truly engage with each other, share vulnerabilities, and foster a deeper connection.

    Influence of Pornography: Regular consumption of pornography can distort realistic expectations of intimacy, replacing genuine connection with unrealistic fantasies. Keep your interactions authentic and focused on each other.

    Demands of Parenthood: Children are a blessing but can absorb all your attention. It’s crucial to find balance by occasionally focusing solely on your partner, perhaps by arranging child-free times through family or trusted friends.

    Excessive Work Commitments: Balancing work and personal life is essential. Set boundaries to ensure work does not encroach on your dedicated couple time, allowing you to nurture your relationship.

    External Romantic Entanglements: Affairs or flirtations dilute the intimacy with your partner, diverting attention and emotional energy away from the relationship.

    Suspicion and Mistrust: Suspicions, whether justified or not, can erode trust and intimacy. Foster an environment of transparency and reassurance to mitigate doubts and enhance closeness.

    Fear of Vulnerability: Fear can prevent partners from opening up and being truly vulnerable. Cultivate a safe space where both individuals feel secure to share their true selves, including their fears and flaws.
    Obstacles to True Intimacy in Relationships Intimacy transcends physical closeness and embodies the profound connection shared by two people in love. However, certain factors can impede this deep bond: Lack of Emotional Intelligence: Emotional intelligence plays a crucial role in understanding and responding to your partner's feelings. A deficiency in this area can lead to misinterpretations and conflicts, obstructing the flow of genuine intimacy. Technological Distractions: In today’s digital age, phones, tablets, and other devices can significantly distract from face-to-face interactions. Prioritizing screen time over partner time can erode the foundations of intimate connection. Physical Health Issues: Health problems, whether chronic or temporary, can affect one's libido and ability to physically engage in intimate activities. Addressing these issues with compassion and understanding is crucial for maintaining closeness. Mental Health Struggles: Issues such as depression, anxiety, or stress can isolate individuals emotionally and lead to withdrawal from intimate connections. Supportive dialogue and professional help can mitigate these effects. Unresolved Past Traumas: Past experiences, particularly traumatic ones, can cast long shadows over current relationships. Working through these issues with professional guidance can help in reclaiming intimacy. Lifestyle Mismatches: Differing lifestyles and values can create rifts in how partners spend their time and engage with each other. Finding common ground or accepting differences is key to maintaining intimacy. Communication Gaps: Inadequate communication can lead to misunderstandings and resentment, blocking the paths to intimacy. Effective communication involves not just talking but also listening and understanding your partner's perspectives. Neglecting Personal Growth: When individuals stop investing in their personal development, it can stagnate the relationship. Encouraging each other to pursue personal interests and growth can bring fresh energy and insights into the relationship. Over-Dependency on Sex: While sex is an important aspect of intimacy, relying solely on it can detract from the richness of your relationship. See beyond physical pleasure; embrace emotional connection through cuddling, pillow talks, and simply being together. Lack of Quality Time: Intimacy requires undivided attention and cannot thrive in haste. Dedicate time to truly engage with each other, share vulnerabilities, and foster a deeper connection. Influence of Pornography: Regular consumption of pornography can distort realistic expectations of intimacy, replacing genuine connection with unrealistic fantasies. Keep your interactions authentic and focused on each other. Demands of Parenthood: Children are a blessing but can absorb all your attention. It’s crucial to find balance by occasionally focusing solely on your partner, perhaps by arranging child-free times through family or trusted friends. Excessive Work Commitments: Balancing work and personal life is essential. Set boundaries to ensure work does not encroach on your dedicated couple time, allowing you to nurture your relationship. External Romantic Entanglements: Affairs or flirtations dilute the intimacy with your partner, diverting attention and emotional energy away from the relationship. Suspicion and Mistrust: Suspicions, whether justified or not, can erode trust and intimacy. Foster an environment of transparency and reassurance to mitigate doubts and enhance closeness. Fear of Vulnerability: Fear can prevent partners from opening up and being truly vulnerable. Cultivate a safe space where both individuals feel secure to share their true selves, including their fears and flaws.
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